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| Couple Counseling |
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Services include:
- Assessing and treating sexual difficulties in couples.
- Marital sex help.
- Couple therapy relationship:
- Understanding sexual drives.
- Creating a deeper psychological and emotional link.
- Effective communication: body and soul.
The short links below will give you a brief idea about your “journey to a successful life in couple”. |
| Does ‘love from the first sight’ exist? |
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At first sight, your first ‘hello’ pops and clicks because of the compatible pheromones that allow you to ‘click chemically’. As your relationship grows during the first months, physiological changes will come up in your body. In parallel with pheromones, endorphins will give you this feeling of euphoria that you automatically translate into “falling in love from the first sight”. |
| “Fight and Flight” while in love… |
During the first months of your relationship you explore each other, you look at things the way you like them to be. As time goes by, ‘individualism’ installs again, i.e. you look at yourself again as an individual that has his own qualities and own defects. Divergence starts to take place….Do not panic; it is quite normal to be feeling this way.
Actually if you do not diverge, you do not relate. Having different points of view, ideas, cultural and educational backgrounds should be regarded as an important source for enriching your relationship thus making it active, exciting, and in continuous renewal. The issue then bounces into working as a couple through converging your divergence by understanding one’s and partner’s needs. When your divergence is held in a healthy way, you will always remain friends and lovers, open-minded persons that trust each other in an exciting and unique manner. Make things grow in your relationship by engaging yourself in your partner’s needs and thoughts. Is this the person I should be with?
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| Sex and Intimacy… |
Intimacy is to open to one another spiritually, physically, psychologically and socially. Simple, sincere and trustworthy communications between one another are the basic tools to keep your relationship “spicy”, especially during sexual intercourses. Never make your “after-sex time” a period when problems and difficulties are pointed out. Keep in mind that couples take sometimes many years to adjust sexually. This is quite normal when two different backgrounds, sexual needs, sexual experiences and preferences are joined together in the same bed. |
What to do when we diverge? |
Talk openly to each other, communicate, discuss and try to magnify the positive aspects of your relationship and deal smoothly with the negative ones. Remember to listen well to each other’s needs and concerns. However, if things come to a dead end between you, then a highly trained sexologist, sextherapist who is also able to deal with marriage counseling and martial sex help, will dissolve your concerns.
Consequently if you and/or your partner feel the need of counseling, why not consider contacting my clinic to set an appointment. Courtesy, respect, discretion, support, and privacy are the five basics of the successful therapeutic approach that I follow. After all, I am here to make your relationship move smoothly, harmonically and in balance. |
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